Be Your Own Friend
Imagine that someone you care deeply about comes to you after making a mistake. They tell you they failed an interview. They missed an important deadline. They embarrassed themselves during a presentation. They feel...
Imagine that someone you care deeply about comes to you after making a mistake. They tell you they failed an interview. They missed an important deadline. They embarrassed themselves during a presentation. They feel...
Lately, I’ve been thinking about how much of my life is spent doing things. My work and responsibilities demand action. Decisions to make. Problems to solve. People to support. There is always something that...
When you get angry, you literally become less intelligent. “It’s biology” Psychologists call it an “amygdala hijack.” When the brain detects a threat, the emotional center takes control and temporarily suppresses the prefrontal cortex,...
We live in a world obsessed with productivity. We measure ourselves by accomplishments, efficiency, and how much we can fit into a day. Over time, productivity can become part of our identity. The problem...
There are moments in life that remind us that love and grief are inseparable. The deeper we love, the deeper we grieve. Last week, my family and I said goodbye to Baloo, our beautiful...
Sometimes I wonder how many things I experience every day without noticing them. Was I grateful today for being able to walk?Probably not. Walking feels normal.Until I stop and think that somewhere, in this...
Most exhaustion does not come from what we are doing. It comes from what we keep carrying in our minds. A conversation replayed for the tenth time. A future problem rehearsed before it even...
There is something strange about modern life. We are living in the most connected moment in human history, yet many people feel profoundly alone. Young adults and teenagers especially have grown up surrounded by...
Sometimes I find myself complaining. It starts almost automatically, a reaction to something that feels off or unfair. In the moment, it feels justified. But when I step back, I see that it rarely...
If I imagine my life as a grid of months, assuming I (hopefully) might live to 90 in (hopefully) good health, I can see how many have already passed and how many might still...